What Lessons Can A Mother Give To Their Daughters Going To Boarding School?

 

Lessons For A Teenage Daughter Going To Boarding School

It has always been a dream for a girl to live on her terms and explore the world all by herself. Despite 76 years of celebrating independence, women (and men) still seek independence and the courage to say something they want to achieve in life for themselves. Regardless of how well the world has grown with numerous opportunities and technologies, there is still some hindrance in family decisions when a girl is ready to set her foot outside in the world.

Parents always want their children to adapt to societal trends and fly in colors. However, that sheer dollop of fear in mothers makes them think more wisely. A mother has been through everything since childhood, maybe even overcoming worse situations. Hence, they tend to know what's in the best interest of their daughters. The world can get as cruel as it wants, which makes the parents ponder whether letting go of their daughter is a fair decision.  

Mothers, especially Indian mothers, get anxious when their daughters fail to respond to their phone call from a nearby grocery store. Due to this, it has become a big deal for the folks to face reality and allow their ”apple of the eye” to soar all alone. 

If you are someone who is willing to send your daughter to a boarding school but wondering how to start that “much-needed” conversation, here is what I would tell my daughter,

1. Always organize your things and keep them somewhere safe because you cannot predict the other person’s behavior from a one-day conversation.
2. Do not spend money where you have second thoughts. If you go outside and wonder whether or not you should buy something, don't buy it. Try and understand how you would utilize it on a daily basis in school. If it is valid, go ahead and buy it. (Another important lesson- do not lend or borrow money from anybody. It is a pain in the a** to bug someone and ask when they can return the money and vice versa). 
3. Do Not Share. By that, I mean do not share your family history or personal matters with a random stranger (unless it is a very dear friend of yours). People always tend to take advantage of you when they understand how vulnerable you are. Never give them that chance!
4. Be bold in your response. No matter if you are wrong. It hurts nobody to respond or ask something (regardless of age). Never hesitate to ask questions or say something at necessary places or situations. 
5. Do not tag along with people just for the sake of it. Engage in meaningful conversations with friends and teachers. Some people tend to waste your time and drain your energy. You would not even realize it until it is too late. Always be firm and straightforward with them.

So well, these are some of the most important lessons I would teach my daughter. I would always want what is best for her. Her safety is of utmost importance to me. Thus, I will ensure to provide her all the necessary information and safety products that may protect her at the time of the hour. I hope you found this article helpful! You can always add your personal suggestions and lessons you find more important for your daughter.